Dating Rights & Responsibilities


Do you know your rights and responsibilities when it comes to dating?? Does your teen?
The Domestic Violence Advocacy Program of Family Resources, Inc put together this list. Read it, talk about. We all have a right and responsiblity to make sure we are putting an end to dating violence.



Dating Bill of Rights

I have a right to:
Ask for a date
Refuse a date
Suggest activities
Refuse any activities, even if my date is excited about them
Have my own feelings and be able to express them
Say, "I think my friend is wrong and his actions are inappropriate"
Tell someone not to interrupt me
Have my limits and values respected
Tell my partner when I need affection
Refuse affection
Be heard
Refuse to lend money
Refuse sex any time, for any reason
Have friends and space aside from my partner

I have the responsibility to:
Determine my limits and values
Respect the limits of others
Communicate clearly and honestly
Not violate the limits of others
Ask for help when I need it
Be considerate
Check my actions and decisions to determine whether they are good or bad for me
Set high goals for myself
From the Domestic Violence Advocacy Program of Family Resources, Inc.

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